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I was all set to do a phone interview with Mariel Hemingway to discuss her new book, Mariel Hemingway's Healthy Living From the Inside Out (Harper San Francisco). But when I called her hotel, I had an incredibly difficult time getting through to this granddaughter of America's literary titan: The operator couldn't spell “Hemingway,” which probably had Ernest rolling over in his grave. But it was a fitting introduction to my conversation with the actress-writer, who personifies contradiction.
Like the character she played in Woody Allen's Manhattan—an apparent innocent who was, in fact, far from it—Mariel is not what you'd imagine. Despite her family's dark and murky legacy (the suicide of her grandfather; alleged suicide of her sister, Margaux; and the death of her father following a surgical mishap), Mariel radiates lightness, clarity, and strength. And though she derived early fame and fortune as a model and actress, struggling to live up to unrealistic standards of outer perfection, she has spent much of her adult life directing herself inward to discover dietary, physical, and spiritual practices, including yoga, to vanquish demons that threaten emotional and physical well-being. Now, as a writer, she presents her four-prong (food, exercise, home, and silence) roadmap for achieving wholeness and balance.
Of course, I was most interested in her theories and strategies concerning the home, which could be regarded as antidecor—if decor means adopting trendy styles that have nothing to do with one's deepest inclinations, or dressing rooms in a look determined by a designer who never gets to know you. “We don't spend enough time at home, but when we are there, it should fill us up,” says Mariel. “But we get caught up in the model home syndrome, which is like being on someone else's diet or wearing someone else's dress—it doesn't fit. I believe that you can have fabulous design, but it should come from your heart. We need to figure out who we really are and go from there.” Mariel's book is filled with practical advice. Here are some suggestions she shared in our conversation:





